I have been getting mail from my back for someone I assume used to live at my place since I moved in. I kept ignoring it, thinking she would change her address eventually. It’s been about a year and they are still sending me bank mail for a person I’ve never met.

This seems like a serious security issue so I called the bank and alerted them to the problem. I was told I would have to find her and get her new address for them so they could change it. This seems…wrong. I’m alerting you to a security issue with one of your accounts and you need ME to fix it? The agent on the phone said there was nothing they could do without a new address.

I pressed harder and asked them to flag that account so she would have a warning she needs to talk to a banker next time she tries to use her account. Eventually he relented and put a flag on her account.

This seems really sloppy. Do banks just, not care about the mail they send out going to the right place? I’m honestly considering switching to a credit union over this.

  • TORFdot0@lemmy.world
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    They probably use a third party company to mail statements and such. I wouldn’t be surprised if they have already tried to contact the account owner but are unable to. They still need an address on file for account verification so they can’t exactly remove your address without an updated address from the customer. I don’t know why they asked you though. You wouldn’t have permission to update information on someone else’s account.

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    I don’t know where you reside, but can’t you write on the back of the envelope containing the letter with “return to sender”? In my country, this is what we do to notify the sender that the addressee no longer lives in the premise.

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      Same here. We write “verzogen” on the envelope (because the letter has been a bad boy) and either leave it out on top of the letterbox or go throw it into a post collecting box.

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      This.

      It’s normal here (UK) to write “not at this address” and put it in a postbox. It will be returned for free, and this specific wording lets the sender know it was rejected because the person doesn’t live there anymore (rather than because you’re simply rejecting it)

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    I recently had to get a new card cancelled and reissued because it was sent to an old address. I definitely updated my address with that bank, but it didn’t stick.

    I’ve updated my address with other companies and later found that different parts of their system kept different addresses.

    Not too long ago I even worked on the address changing section of a finance company’s website. That project was a nightmare, and I learned a lot about why address changes are much harder to implement than you would think.

    I really wanted to spend more time ironing out edge cases on that one, but I was under a lot of pressure to get it delivered because some genius had already committed to removing the forms we already used for this.

    So basically it’s possible this person did change their address, at least for some things with that bank, and fixing it might not be something they can do without just the right specific instruction. As long as the bank can demonstrate a good faith attempt to do it right, they are legally covered. Sometimes it’s cheaper to compensate for very rare customer losses that result in edge case fuckups, than to pay developers what it would take to fix it properly.

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      I’ve been doing this for 4+ years for the same person and bank. I even showed up in person to the local branch and spoke to a manager. I’m having the same problem as OP; it never ends.

      What’s more: no one (landlord, neighbors) knows who this person is. They’ve even got a business registered at my apartment.

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        They’ve even got a business registered at my apartment.

        I would add “Attention: Fraud Department” to the writing on the envelope, in this case. It feels like someone may be running some kind of scam, and that might get the letter into the hands of someone who can do something about it.

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        Have you you tried stealing the person’s identity? Seems like that’s what the bank is asking for.

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        Have you tried contacting the agency that deals with business registrations? Maybe they can flag the business for using a fake address.

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      Also, use a sharpie to black out the barcode and city, state, zip or you might end up with it back in your mailbox.

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      What do you do after doing this for 4+ years for the same person and bank, and you’ve gone as far as showing up in person at the bank’s local branch?

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        Try writting ‘Deceased’ on it and return it. At the very least it’ll give any human who sees it a momentary pause, and maybe they’ll take it more seriously.

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            Yeah after that long it’s just going in the recycling. Another thing you can do is notify the post office or carrier to deliver your mail by name only. This won’t stop mail addressed to “current resident,” but it should stop the stuff you’re talking about.

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              Yeah. I go to the post office semi-regularly and I see people complain about this problem; the employees just roll their eyes and say to mark the mail.

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        Write “Return to sender, not at this adress” on the envelope and put it back in the mail.

        Sorry not sorry

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      Not OP, but live in an apartment, we don’t have any place for outgoing mail, so I need to write in on the envelopes and drop them in a random mailbox?

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        That’s odd. I have lived in apartment complexes for a large portion of my life. There has always been a single outgoing mail slot with the rows of mailboxes at the apartment complexes. It blends in so it might not look too different than the rest of the bank of mailboxes. This is in the US though so idk how other countries handle it.

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        Yeah, I have the same issue. I just keep the misdirected mail for a week or two until it stacks up and then drop it all in the nearest blue USPS mailbox, which is in the center of town. It’s annoying, but not a huge deal.

        Also I’ve read you shouldn’t write directly on the envelope, the post office prefers sticky notes so the original envelope isn’t defaced.

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            Eh I guess it’s possible, but probably unlikely. You could always stick some tape on the sticky note if you’re worried.

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        You don’t have any place for outgoing mail?? That’s wild. Most people in houses just clip outgoing mail to their mailbox for the postman to pick up. I would’ve assumed apartments always had an outgoing box if they’re using one of those walls of mailboxes.

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    Not sure if all banks work that way, but I do have a way for you to solve the problem with anybody who is doing that.

    In the United States, you can go down to the local post office and fill out a small form. That form lists exactly who lives there. The Post Office puts that form into an optical reader software and all mail that goes through the distribution plant gets read by an optical reader.

    So for example let’s say that you lived at

    872 3rd St. S.

    And I tried to mail a letter to

    John Stevens

    872 3rd St. S.

    If you don’t have John Stevens wrote on that form that you gave to the post office, the optical reader will immediately reject that letter and send it to whoever sent it. You will never see any mail other than what is addressed to you.

    Make sure that everybody who lives at that address is wrote on that form. I would also write down anybody who realistically might be getting mail there. So for example, let’s say your mom intends to have a letter sent to your house for her even though she doesn’t live with you you’d wanna make sure her name is on that form.

    Now the bank tries to send stuff out for this other person and the bank gets it right back.

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      Wait a second. I get junk mail all the time and when I used to call to opt out, the sender would just change the name to “current resident” and send it anyway. Are you telling me this would solve that?

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          I tried arguing with them that my name wasn’t “Current Resident” it went about as well as expected… lol

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          I don’t live in a first world country. I live in the US. They are trying to sell the post office to Amazon right now.

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    You should definitely switch to a credit union regardless. There are no downsides.

    But fault for this kind of issue is shared between the previous resident and the bank. When someone moves, it’s their responsibility to change their address in all the various systems in which they exist and set up mail forwarding, which lasts for a year by default, and is free.

    It is your responsibility to forward any misdirected mail you receive. The alternative is throwing it out, which is illegal. Just put a sticky note on the envelope that says something like “wrong address, return to sender” and drop it in any outgoing mailbox.

    This is a pretty standard issue though. I lived at my previous apartment for more than 7 years, and I was still getting mail from the previous tenant when I moved out. People are so lazy.

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        If you don’t want to take it to a mailbox, you can put it back in your own mailbox with the “return to sender - no longer at this address” on it. The mail carrier can pick it up when they deliver your mail next. If they seem to miss it, you can try putting a bright post-it note on it to make it stand out.

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          This only works for certain kinds of mailboxes, not the standard ones many apartments have that only open for the carrier from the top. The carrier has a key that opens the whole box from the top, they put the mail in that way. It’s only incoming mail, there’s no external slot to put outgoing mail. If there’s anything left in the box when they’re delivering, the carrier just assumes the resident hasn’t picked up the previous mail. They never take mail out of an incoming mailbox box.

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            That’s the point of the post-it note. So they see it.

            I’ve done it before at an apartment, though admittedly it was many many moons ago.

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              I understand. The mailboxes I’m talking about are only accessible to the mail carrier from the top. They slide the letters in from the top after unlocking and opening it to access all the units’ boxes at once, and then I open mine from the front. They would only be able to see the top edge of an envelope. A post-it note wouldn’t be visible. But they never look inside anyway, because these are incoming boxes only.

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          The mailbox at this property is one way only. You drop something in from the top and the lid traps it in there. A key opens a flap in the front. Theres no flag, theres no shared key with USPS. it’s one way only and incredibly stupid.

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          I’ve tried this at multiple apartments with a 0% success rate. It seems the “return to sender” thing hasn’t worked for decades, at least in apartment complexes.

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            “Not at this address - return to sender” doesn’t do much, but “Deceased - return to sender” always works for me. Hopefully someone at the bank/sender flags the account and makes it the account holder’s problem.

            (Don’t use sticky notes, they’ll fall off in the mail. Use a black permanent marker and write as big as possible so that they can’t “accidentally” miss your note. Cross out any barcodes or other markings that the post office adds so that it won’t automatically be re-sent to you, the machines will reject it and it will be manually routed back to the sender)

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        I just replied to a similar comment, but here it is again since you replied while I was typing :)

        Yeah, I have the same issue. I just keep the misdirected mail for a week or two until it stacks up and then drop it all in the nearest blue USPS mailbox, which is in the center of town. It’s annoying, but not a huge deal. Also I’ve read you shouldn’t write directly on the envelope, the post office prefers sticky notes so the original envelope isn’t defaced.

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        If you have a bank of mailboxes that sticks out from the wall, you could try perching the “return to sender” envelope on top of the boxes, with maybe a post-it that says “Outgoing Mail” on it.

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      there are now downsides

      Not quite true. I ended up moving my checking account from a credit union (local one in my state) to a normal bank (PNC) because of ATM availability.

      It’s really nice to be able to easily get fee-free money anywhere in the country.

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        Yeah my bad, that can definitely be true depending on the credit union.

        Many if not most CUs join a co-op of tens of thousands of fee-free ATMs, but depending on where you are and which CU you’re a member of, it may not help.

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    Thats some bs. they should stop sending the statements to the address and flag it and you should not have had to asked for the flag. heck it should have been flagged just because a stranger called to talk about the account.

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      Exactly! I think I’m going to leave. Except my credit union had a security issue too. I remember talking to them about moving the pay date for my car loan to match the pay date at my new job a while back. On the managers computer screen they had their software running full screen. From where I sat, I could clearly read full uncensored passwords for accounts. Each account he flipped through just showed the password in the upper right of the screen.

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        wtf! As a sys admin I would get upset at people trying to be helpful by telling me their password and its not something you can see on a system usually. I mean you can’t call up your own password just reset it. Granted devices you can and keys and such but users and accounts should never be visible except when maybe typing it in a blank box.

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    At the other end of the spectrum, discover locked me out of my account because I entered the password wrong three times.

    To answer your question, I think so much work is done online that mail is largely informative and not part of the decision making process.

    Not until a bank loses lots of money over something will they change, that’s why they’re hiring cobol devs!