We spend our days bound by endless obligations. Yet, even with loneliness, failed relationships, and soul-draining work, people still manage to catch a glimpse of happiness. Why?

  • Arbiter@lemmy.world
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    Well, things do happen after you die, just not to you.

    Compassion for those who come after us is one possible source of meaning.

    One could also consider that having no afterlife makes this life more meaningful than it would be compared to an infinity.

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    Well, that’s kinda the point.

    If you assume that all we get is what we have while we’re alive, then that life becomes the point

    A lot of people that reach the conclusions you have, opt out. They move into a commune, they go vagabond, they may choose to just flit between jobs and find whatever fun is in them.

    Or, they may decide to become focused on finding purpose within the world that is, the societal structures as they exist. Some of those devote themselves to service, or find jobs that they believe make life better for others.

    Some stay in the framework of things, but do the bare minimum and focus on their off time their purpose.

    The point of it, from that point of view where this is all we get, is to find what makes staying alive worth it.

    It isn’t like the certainty of no afterlife removes your ability to live and love and do good things. It can make it harder to bear the bad things of life as well, but that’s anything really.

    The point is what you decide it is.

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    There’s no meaning, no purpose. We’re random life on a random planet. Try to have a happy life and try not to inhibit the happiness of others. That’s it.

  • If nothing we do matters, the only thing that matters is what we do.

    Life sucks, the world is a bad place. Leave it just a little bit better than you found it and you’ve lived life’s purpose in my book. We are generational garbage collectors, picking up the pieces of societal trash our forebearers left behind. So do your part. Pick up the trash. Leave the world just a little bit better than you found it.

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      Genuinely thanks for that first line. I’ve held that idea for a long time without the correct words for it to explain how I feel to other people.

      I feel like it also compliments the philosophy of “why not?” As in, “if nothing we do matters, why not be kind? Why not love people? Why not help people present and future?” If good and evil are equal utility, why not be a good person?

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    life’s like minecraft. you set your own goals and then you pursue them.

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    There’s no point, and that’s beautiful. Go live your life the way you want to — nothing will happen after you die

  • BradleyUffner@lemmy.world
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    But you are here now, so live a good life and enjoy it while you can. Maybe try to help others do the same. This is all we get, so use it to the fullest.

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      This. “It is a cheap generosity that promises the future as compensation for the present.”

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    Paraphrasing something I read somewhere “Do we open a book just to close it again?” That for me, it means that it is not merely for doing something that we exist, but to tell stories, to pass on knowledge, to keep rituals alive, to be a vessel for something beyond ourselves. The important part, same as books, is to tell stories. Everything sparks from there.

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    Life is the point, this one

    Why do you need reward in a second life for the first one to matter?

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      Wait, there is nothing after second life? What is the point of second life without third life to give it meaning? /s

  • starman2112@sh.itjust.works
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    “There’s no point living, so you may as well die” is so last decade. “There’s no point dying, so you may as well live” is where it’s at

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      “We’re all going to die someday. Might as well do what you love doing” - Alex Honnald. Free Solo (or something like that)

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      There’s no point in living, but make sure you take a couple of the bastards with you when you go down.

  • D4NT3@lemmy.world
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    IIRC, the nihilist position is that there is no point, and the way I’ve chosen to interpret that is that it means we are free to personally define the point at any time, and for any length of time, as we please. The pointlessness lets us custom design life to fit our needs and desires, if we can minimize getting caught up in “you should do this and be that” external mentalities that may be incompatible with our natures. This seems like one of many correct paths to life satisfaction.

    Of course, part of the battle is discovering what’s in your(you in general not you specifically) nature to do and be, and then having the courage to see it through no matter what influences around you are saying or doing that may contradict it. The other part being unlearning incompatible mindsets that may have been fed into your mind when you were younger; authority figures anywhere in, and in any stage of, life are in dangerous positions to cause long term harm to impressionable, trusting minds, which is why I personally focus more on the “figure” and less on the “authority” part of “authority figure” when I’m dealing with people in those positions.

    “It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it” - Aristotle or whoever actually said it.

      • gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de
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        From what i’ve observed, people deal with “there’s no higher power” differently.

        For some people, that i call right-wing, or authoritarian, having some higher power that tells them what to do, is the meaning of life. If they lose that something, then they become depressed and stop living, in any sense, a joyful life.

        On the other hand, there are people, which i am comfortable to call left-wing, or hippies, or communitarian, who don’t need that higher power to tell them what to do, in fact, it rather obstructs them. They are joyful even in the absence of a higher, guiding power, because they can find their own meaning in life.

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          IMO the need for a higher authority is both because of fear of death, and to be lazy and not think about what is right and wrong. So either excuse yourself (ex. catolicism, ask oardon from god not the victim) or just believe “your” religion gives you the right to do as you please.

          So stop living in fear and embrace the absurd that we, simple 100 years tops organic blobs live in a billion years universe.

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    Does there need to be a point? We eat because we’re hungry, sleep because we’re tired, live because we’re instinctively apposed to death.