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  • I don’t hate anyone, but I do have a hard time letting half-truths go unchallenged. And I will call a dumb trollbot a dumb trollbot!

    My whole point is, if you’re not happy where you are – Go! Find your happy place! Somehow, me advising people to find their happy place “isn’t fair” or “being rude”. WTF!!! Personally, I 100% intend to return to Malaysia. America isn’t now, or will it ever, say “YOU CAN’T LEAVE HERE!”. All these bots saying “I’m trapped” and then scream bloody murder when I show them they’re not… It’s hilarious.

    If you’re not happy where you are, go find a place where you can be! The world does not exist to provide you happiness. You have have to go find it. That’s part of being a grown-up. But some people would rather sit on a screen and complain all day long. What – you think the government is going to come knocking on your door, ask you where you’d like to go, and give you a free plane ticket? Not gonna happen. You gotta get off your butt and make it happen.

    One more year here and then I retire to a small hut on a beach near Kuantan!



  • I think it’s plenty fair. Why live in a country you hate? When I’ve been in countries I didn’t like, I left. They can, too. If you read the thread, many think the USA won’t let them leave – which couldn’t be farther from the truth. I merely provided various ways they could leave, since they hate it so much and think they’re trapped.

    But as you might notice 90% of the comments here are posted by trollbots. And trollbots tend to like name calling. My favorite were the posts that said “But I want to move to England so I can’t teach English, a**hole!” – Not without a Ph.D., this is true, but they still take tech workers and nurses (and that’s every country!). So there’s plenty of room to move there, especially if you’re a human being and not a trollbot.

    I’m mostly happy with the society I currently live in (Colorado). I may not like everything the President of my country does, but I usually feel that way regardless of who gets voted in because they’re gone in a few years. In this particular situation, I’d love to see free and fair trade without tariffs of any kind. But I’ve been to Canada and Trump does have a point, Canada has been levying invisible tariffs on American goods for decades and not living up to its USMCA agreements – something most Americans and most Canadians don’t even realize.

    Now do I approve the way Trump is handling this? Of course not. They guy’s a jerk. He could have plainly laid things out to the press, showed the grievance, and explained his actions but instead used his typical Queens attitude to justify being obnoxious (this is why most of America doesn’t really care for people from New York). And don’t even get me going on the renaming of lakes and gulfs, it’s asinine at best at looks childish. But this clown, like the last clown, will be gone in a few years. And with the midterms just months away the majority in Congress will likely change parties and his hands will be tied for the rest of his second term anyways.

    As for an “ideal” society, I don’t think it’s even possible. Too many people have entirely different values. Even generationally, you run into problems. Older generations have been calling younger generations spoiled and lazy since the birth of time, and in some cases that’s true because the younger generations have had more in terms of convenience than the older generations did. The younger generations have always accused the older generations of being out of touch, and in some cases that’s true as well, the opportunities of the 50’s/60’s/70’s no longer exist and labor’s capture of GDP has diminished greatly while home prices have soared (along with everything else). So even with just that, you’re going to have friction in any society (and it rings true in every country I’ve lived in). Add in cultural differences on top of that, different views on work and life, and you end up with a secular society where yes, everyone gets to live how they please but there’s zero cohesion or national culture. So I don’t think you can base your own internal happiness on external society. You just have to find a society you can live in without hating.











  • If you want citizenship in a different country, that’s between you and said country. Not America’s fault if that other country doesn’t want you.

    Having to pay double tax is absolutely normal outside of the Western world. Most of Asia, most of Africa, and most of South America rely on the practice. Please tell me more how that’s America’s fault…

    And no, you’ll eventually gain knowledge and quit arguing with me because information is freely available. But lies cost you brainpower. And you just lost all 4 of your arguments.

    America does not prevent (or charge) people to leave. So you do some research, I didn’t have to pay to leave. I don’t have to pay to leave now. Quit lying. One year working contracts lead to resident visas, after you prove yourself (amazingly, just like America!). So please quit lying. You are clearly pulling shit our of your ass, trollbot!



  • That is another lie – I got my passport and left owing $15k in student loans and another $50k in back taxes. So please, quit lying.

    No problem, I’m all for closing the northern border and seeing how long you last! Heck, I say we should sell Alaska back to Russia at cost! How do you like us now?!?!

    We have paid you for lumber, oil and power at the price you sold for. For hundreds of years. Now you want to say we didn’t give you enough, after paying the price you agreed to? Did you know the electricity you sell us makes up less than 1% of what we actually use? Seriously dude, you make me laugh!!!

    But Eh, no worries. One of my best friends is Canadian. We drink beer, we laugh, we’re friends through it all. And sometimes we even yell at each other and break out in laughter.

    But seriously, you can keep the wood, we moved on to steel. The oil? We took Valenzuela back. Electricity? I guess my bill goes from $100 to $101. Ouch.

    So cut off what you like, you’re only cutting your own nose off to spite your face.

    Have a good one. Don’t take shit too seriously.



  • They can! There’s no American law saying they have to stay. They are free to leave! And they are lying when they say they’re not. This isn’t difficult to understand!

    I lived in China and no – you’re not free to move around the nation. Han Chinese or not. There’s a thing called a Hokou. Same with Cambodia and many other nations. You have to pay to leave your town. And pay to arrive in another. And pay taxes in both places just to work outside your birthplace. Corruption in its finest form. You should do some research. Because right now, you look naive at best.

    What gets me about you “damn” Canadians is the fact your very existence is based on US subsidies. My shit nation guarantees your shit nation actually exists! 🤣

    He does need to grow up. My situation has been far shittier than his ever has, but I’m not complaining. I’m thriving. Like a grown-up does. So yes, he needs to stop bitching and expecting the world to owe him shit like Canada does…

    I mean really, nobody gives a crap if 10,000 people boycott US goods… 🤣


  • I live in the States now (have since 2013). And here’s what’ll blow you mind about me –

    Passport stolen in Cambodia while I was teaching English there. Can’t bank or leave there without one, can’t get a job, can’t receive money via Western Union (even if I’d had family willing to send the stuff), can’t do anything but go hungry and learn to live like most Cambodians actually do. I walked the Mekong to South Vietnam entirely, made friends I still talk to, and survived. The US Embassy wouldn’t do squat for me because I didn’t have my birth certificate. It wasn’t until I almost died that I was finally repatriated. And when I finally was, I landed at LAX in the middle of December in 30F weather wearing nothing but a pair of shorts, t-shirt, and bamboo flip-flops. No shit. No job. No home. No family. Homeless and cold.

    So I hitchhiked. To Florida. Hitchhiked back to Southern California (twice) for my birth certificate, when you’re homeless your documents are the first thing that gets stolen. I took odd jobs, worked a summer season at Yellowstone National Park, hitchhiked a few more years, got into offshore oil and gas, then started falling down (without the benefit of being drunk!). Eventually got on Medicaid (took forever), got an MRI (or four), and was diagnosed with spinal stenosis and CES. So game over for me on the labor front. Or just about anything that requires lifting, standing, or even most sedentary work.

    So I spent several more years homeless and hitchhiking. I’m heading to Texas next week, still fighting a VA PTSD claim and an SSI disability claim. I finally have a lawyer for both. Hitchhiking introduced me to offshore work, and then later house-sitting work once I couldn’t do that anymore. I now have cash clients in Florida, Texas, Louisiana, Colorado and Montana. All obtained while homeless. And in the process, I went from no address and no credit to 5 major credit cards and a high-700 FICO score.

    So if anyone here should bitch about their circumstances, it’s me. America is not perfect. But I don’t need permission to go work in a different city or state, I can vote, I can just decide I don’t like it here and leave. And go anywhere I want minus the real pariah states like North Korea, Russia, Syria or Iran.

    I went from 110 pounds (I’m 5’9") when I left Cambodia to 165 pounds today. Credit cards, house sittings, and hopefully a safety net that will eventually come through.

    Most countries don’t have half that.

    Is America perfect? No. But it (and its people) are not near as bad as the idiots in this thread are pretending it to be.

    If it were that bad, I would have left again years ago. I stay for a reason. And that reason is because it’s genuinely better than the 16 other countries I’ve lived in.

    Have a nice day!

    PS – The WARN act you mentioned is only for companies that have 100+ workers (a tiny fraction of American employers) and does not require the employer to get government approval before laying off. So please take you misdirection and misrepresentations elsewhere. Nobody likes straw man arguments. They just make you look like a liar.