• LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    11 hours ago

    I agree, but isn’t it strange that throwing her in a hole and throwing dirt on her, or burning her is considered the better treatment?

    I think I’ve been duped by cultural customs.

    • sauerkrautsaul@lemmus.org
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      11 hours ago

      how cultures treat the remains of the dead vary. wrapping your mom’s body in a sheet and hiding it in the house while you wear a wig and go to cash her checks isnt someone waking up from otherwise foolish death customs dude

      • WoodScientist@lemmy.world
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        8 hours ago

        You know what. Maybe it should be!

        I have an idea for a bold new law. Let’s help desperate people, add more whimsy to the world, and maybe help some folks discover something about themselves.

        New Law:
        You can legally claim your dead relative’s social welfare benefits for up to five years after their death…but you have to dress up and present as them full time!

      • LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        10 hours ago

        It really wasn’t meant to be taken that seriously, haha. But I suppose you could tag me as woke to foolish death customs dude. It would be an interesting way to be introduced at a wake

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      8 hours ago

      Meh. It made sense in the wild. Can’t have animals digging up your loved ones. Now it’s more ceremonial but the idea is the same: It’s for the living not the dead

    • CmdrShepard49@sh.itjust.works
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      10 hours ago

      I’d have to agree with you. Personally, they can harvest what good organs I have left and do whatever they want with the rest. I feel like a lot of the traditions around death are there for the surviving friends and family not for the deceased. In this case, he was the surviving family member and honored her by dressing up like her and collecting her pension.