i often dream and overthink my past mistakes, some are even so stupid to the point i feel cringe. i know that its already done and nothing else i can do about it but i just cannot move on from it.

i even diagnosed with anxiety disorder, and i need medication just to sleep.

i am convinced that if i know to move on, my anxiety disorder should be cured by itself, but i still lost the fight. any suggestion how you guys deal with it?

  • shojivr@lemmy.zipOP
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    21 hours ago

    unfortunately some of mistakes has lasting effects to society, as example you done a mistakes that ended up destroyed trust of your career or relationship, your reputation hurts everytime you gonna start over.

    people already label you as bad person due to your past mistakes.

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      20 hours ago

      You must run in some very tight circles if you’re getting judged by people you haven’t met based on things you did professionally or while in a relationship. That, or you did something really fucked up I guess

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        16 hours ago

        i can say tight circles, as example HR will do background check for their employees and your future relationship will also do that as well.