• Velma@lemmy.today
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    The men I sleep with wipe their dicks to minimize the amount of piss that they’re walking around in all day AND they wash their hands.

    In my youth, there were definitely guys that gave me UTIs and BV because they had absolutely no regard for the health of their partners. They were disgusting and selfish.

    If you want to continue to be one of those types of guys, again, I’m not fucking stopping you. I’m just disgusted by you.

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        If you think I haven’t seen my husband piss and vice versa, I don’t know what to tell you.

        When you live with someone, you become very aware of their bathroom and hygiene habits.

        On top of all that, it becomes really clear once clothes come off whether a guy wipes and washes or not.

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          Hey, if your husband wipes his pee hole after pissing, power to him. He is in the extreme minority of men though. Similarly, if had been giving infections to my wife all these years (or she to me), we would have noticed. I don’t even need clothes to come off before I can smell whether someone washes or not. Probably why showers are so popular.

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            Yeah just because something doesn’t happen to you or your wife, it never happens at all.

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              And just because your husband wipes his dick after pissing doesn’t mean anyone else does.

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                  And I’m telling you, they didn’t wipe their dicks. I don’t need to have slept with any men to know that none of them wipe their dicks after pissing with any sort of regularity. How many times have you lined up at a busy bank of urinals? Amazingly, they never have toilet paper in them.

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                    I’m so glad to have met the representative for all men! Wow, it’s such an honor to meet the single man who knows every single man in existence!

                    AND your wife is representative of all women, too! Gee whiz, so cool!!

                    And just to have the final word here - It is gross to not wash your hands after pissing and shitting.