Vibe check
See if there is a spark
I’m going to dump out what I feel they need to know of me. The first sign I get that says “oh…uh…that’s nice I guess” either verbally or by expression, then they’re gone. I won’t try to say things on purpose to get that reaction, but I’m going to lay it down my expectations and I expect to hear their expectations and see if it will go anywhere from there.
First date is for vibe checks and making sure she’s not a fascist.
I want to see how they react when I put on my robe and wizard hat
School of magic? unless you were a grander wizard then expected.
I think the first date is exchanging dick pics and stats on grindr. Engagement is when we first hook up. Getting hitched is the 2nd hookup.
On a first date I’m looking for common interests, and gauging how easy the conversation flows. Do we feel natural together? Does the time go too fast and do I not want it to end? I want to establish a connection on a first date and leave with us both wanting more.
To know they’re not a bigot of some kind.
My bad for starting a fight.
skavau is a clown
skavau is a clown
I never stated any level of support for them, so I have no idea why you’re directing those comments at me.
skavau is a clown
It’s not bigotry if your opinion is based on evidence.
skavau is a clown
I want the Chaos Emeralddss of course!!
Genuine laughter. If we’re relaxed and laughing most of the time, I want to be around that person again :)
Dont really know because I have been on a single first date and it was with my at the time best friend who I am now engaged to so that isn’t exactly a standard situation
We watched a pirated movie in my bedroom for the first one and the second one was a multi mile hike On a mountain with no cell Service so neither would be a normal early in relationship activities
just a good time.
Anal (want, not expect, right?)
I give oral first for obvious reasons buddy guy.
First date is to see if they can carry a conversation and hold their hooch.
Second date is to see if they can cook.
Second date is to see if they can cook.
To make sure they’re on your level, right?
Right?
Obviously, since the second date is also where they see if I can cook.
Now im imagining your 2nd date cook off competition with categories to win and judges to score it.
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