Sounds to me like you just havent met the right people to be friends with yet.

I love being and spending time alone, but I couldnt do it all the time. I think most people cant, humans are social beings by nature.

Try meeting people who enjoy the same hobbies you do, maybe those interactions will offer you some enjoyment.

Months? I think thats pretty exrmtreme. I dont know anybody that holds off on showers that long. I am probably the laziest person I know when it comes to showering and I keep it to at least once a week and that happens very rarely and only when Im not meeting up with other people and also not when its hot and Im sweating, then its usually every (other) day.

But maybe you can just ask them? I know it seems uncomfortable to bring stuff like this up, but they probably have a reason or just dont know that its making others uncomfortable. Like I would be happy if people told me if my breath smells so that I can do something about it instead of them putting up with it and lowering their opinions of me, that kind of thing. If you find out, feel free to update here, now Im invested^^

Sure. I didnt mean ‘have to’ as in you forcing OP, more like in a general sense, ‘why do people using despicable methods get what they want’.

Feels like giving the stalker what they want. Why does OP have to erase their identity here just because of some asshole?

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I wonder how your parents feel about that

Yeeees

Ive been wondering about that myself.

I think it was the same with reddit. Maybe these types of “forums” are just popular among Germans. But I also feel like on average Germans have a higher tendency towards english content than the rest of Europe. Especially France and eastern Europe are notoriously monolingual. I guess there are probably a lot of dutch or belgian people here (relatively speaking), but those countries are smaller so there arent many in absolute numbers.

When I watched the video I immediately knew I was a 2-boxer. “Its just 1000$ more, the mystery box doesnt magically change”. Of course I know it is better to be the kind of person to only take the mystery box, because for me it will be empty. But saying “I would take only one” feels like cheating, like the mystery box would still be empty because the supercomputer knew I was only pretending.

Which of the dozens of current wars are you referring to as ‘this’?

I dont know where youre looking for games but I have so many games with absolutely unique gameplay or artstyle on my wishlist that I could probably fill a lifetime and it keeps growing.

A red flag is a warning sign signalling danger. Like theres a tsunami on its way to the shore. You dont see it, but you see the “red flag” so you evacuate. Being hit by a tsunami is not a red flag, you literally experienced the thing it would warn about.

Im not sure I completely understand your situation. So you are a trans man, in a relationship with (or at least mutual interest in) another man, is that right? If he sees you as a girl, like that person you mentioned suggests, why would he want to be with you in the first place? I dont think that makes sense. If that was the case though, and he wanted you to be his “girlfriend” and look like a girl, then yes, it would probably be transphobic.

Regardless, having a preference for your SOs looks is normal imo, and sometimes it can have significant influence on a relationship. Im not sure how I would react if my wife wanted to get a nose ring for example. I dont like them, I dont like looking at them, I dont know why exactly but its just not for me. But does that make me mysogynistic? If it was important for my wife and her self-expression I would obviously respect that but it would lead to some difficult discussions. I cant control that she would be less physically attractive to me and I would need to tell her that and she would need to make the decision factoring that in. Pressuring her or demanding changes in her looks would be wrong, but not telling her my feelings would be too.

I think you will have to decide between your authentic self-expression and appealing to others. You will need to weigh up how important it is to you, potentially sacrificing a relationship for it, but if its that much of a priority to you then that relationship wasnt meant to be in the first place.

Not at all the same.

The real problem isnt immigration, its how its handled. People arent being integrated into society and the “Germans vs immigrants” propaganda is gaining popularity by that. Most immigrants in recent times are refugees. Sure, it would be “better” if they could stay where they came from, but thats not possible and taking care of them for the time being is the least we could do.

I had a very similar situation to yours. Missed the bus by a few seconds. Car behind it stopped and the guy drove me to the next stop. It was like 200m but made my day. Most people wouldnt bother. I hope one day I can make some stranger happy like that in an unexpected way but I dont think my social awkwardness will let me.

They said theyre trustworthy, which in my experience would generally be true in Japan. You probably wont get shot in the head for your skin color, which may not seem like much but we are living in strange times.

Or I live in a country with better cops than you?

Not sure the country you are referring to exists. Maybe Japan?

I dont particularly watch out for charging before 20, most of the time I just charge it whenever, between 30 and 50 most of the time. Also most phones have a notification when going below 20. Its limiting, yes, but no need for micromanaging if you dont want to.

Anyway, everyone can do what feels right for them.

Most phones should have a setting to stop charging at 80%. My last 3 phones did at least.