Why wouldn’t they? It’s an important metric.

CDN is not self-hosting, first of all.

Second, why would you even want this setup?

Unless you have a real need to use a container, you shouldn’t be running networking anything in a container. It will always perform better closer to the OS without abstractions.

That being said, it sounds like you have an exit-node problem. You can connect, but unless you set split-tunneling on your phone, you have no exit node to provide connectivity. Wireguard is not a traditional VPN in that just connecting to it gives you egress access.

Factory reset and start from scratch. No telling what state that controller or network settings are in. Docs online seem to still be available. The amber light could be network connectivity, as I’m sure that thing has a static IP already set.

Give Qobuz a try. I think they support a lot of the open source based streaming endpoints in the app as long as they properly advertise on your network. Also give Bubbleunpnp a look if you’re on Android. May even solve the YT music issue.

You’re kind of boned with YT music because they use a Chromecast derivative that is closed source from what I understand. Check out Moode or Volumio and see about using direct inputs to stream to other devices though, which can all be done in software. Not sure about Volumio, but Moode has support for the RPi DAC, and makes easy work of just making any audio input streamable.

You should only have one DHCP server on a network, so sort that out first. If you didn’t change settings on the router, I guarantee it’s running.

Assign each Eero a static IP outside of the DHCP range, or make a reservation on the DHCP server for them with the MAC addresses of each. Then make sure they are in AP mode, and not also NAT’ing traffic. You can decide if you want them serving a separate SSID or not. Now you have a coherent network.

As far as the Wireguard server, you’ll also want to give it a static IP outside the DHCP range, then you need to make a port passthrough in your router’s firewall for the Wireguard UDP port. If that’s not an option, you could put it in DMZ, making sure ONLY the Wireguard port is open.

That should sort things out.

The mic thing is either a permissions issue, or the client app itself, but doesn’t have anything to do with your self-hosted portion.

As for the delays, it sounds like you are only talking about notifications, is that right? Messages in app show up quickly, but notifications are delayed?

Me either

Bitwarden for paid, or VaultWarden for self-hosted.

I would say throw them some support and buy the cheap yearly pricing. It’s a steal, and you won’t have to worry about it ever.

You can get a Ryzen mini PC for less than $200. Depends on what is worth to you in cost.