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12 days agoI think the logic is “babies are innocent, these people have a choice and they made the wrong one.”
I think the logic is “babies are innocent, these people have a choice and they made the wrong one.”
My ex and I worked on a birth plan for our second child after her experience with our first was deeply unsatisfying. We discussed home birth but I insisted on a birthing center attached to a hospital in case something went sideways. She found an OB who listened to her, and we made clear what our birthing plan was, and that was respected by the medical staff. As it happened, the labor was smooth and relatively quick, and home birth would have been fine. I’m still glad we were at a facility where there would have been no lag between a problem arising and a doctor being able to address it.
Look up Jaime Loftus’ excellent podcast “My Year in MENSA” for an in-depth look at the organization.