None. It’s like they’ve never really lived up to the hype and attending live music events has somehow always made me uncomfortable. Same with movie theatres.

The most immersive and impactful musical experiences I’ve had have been me sitting alone listening.

breakable pot

Would NOT use that for ashes…

You might be able to ask e.g. https://www.etsy.com/shop/FireMuseShop to make a custom ceramic pot instead.

Ear plugs. They are also very effective at keeping the alarm from waking me up though…